Monument

Women know there are men who don't molest women, but you can't tell by looking which ones they are. If your primary aim is not to get raped, or not to get raped again, then your priority is to avoid false negatives, and "all men are rapists" is the rule of thumb you need to avoid false negatives. And it is *still the rule you need* if the man you're talking to is adamant that he isn't a rapist. It's not about him. It's about you.